25. Releasing Perfectionism
May 03, 2022In this transformative episode, Certified Life & Weight Loss Coach Kara Hackleman dives into the topic of perfectionism and how it affects self-worth. Kara discusses why perfectionism isn’t about being perfect but rather about focusing on perceived flaws and inadequacies. By learning to let go of the perfectionist mindset and embracing your inherent worth, you can create a life rooted in growth, self-acceptance, and true confidence. Join Kara as she shares strategies to release perfectionistic thoughts and build a mindset that celebrates your value, just as you are.
Key Points Covered:
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Understanding Perfectionism and Its Impact on Self-Worth
- Kara explains that perfectionism isn’t about achieving perfection; it’s about obsessing over imperfections and perceived shortcomings.
- How perfectionism often leads people to stop trying altogether, as they focus more on what’s “wrong” than on what’s possible.
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Shifting from “Not Enough” to Self-Acceptance
- The importance of recognizing that self-worth isn’t earned—it’s inherent.
- How questioning thoughts of “not being good enough” helps shift focus to self-acceptance and self-compassion.
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Seeing Worth as Innate and Unchanging
- Kara explores the idea that worth isn’t something you gain or lose based on achievements, productivity, or approval from others.
- The analogy of a baby’s worth, emphasizing that just as a baby is worthy simply by existing, so are you.
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Practicing New Thoughts to Break Perfectionistic Patterns
- Tips on identifying and questioning the origins of negative thoughts to develop a healthier self-view.
- Kara encourages listeners to replace self-critical thoughts with affirmations of “enoughness,” focusing on growth and self-compassion.
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Neutralizing Comparisons to Build Confidence
- How comparing ourselves to others reinforces feelings of inadequacy, and how to neutralize these thoughts by acknowledging our shared worth.
- Practical ways to stop comparing yourself to others and start celebrating your unique qualities.
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Building a Growth-Oriented Mindset
- Kara explains how growth is the natural state of life and that seeking “perfection” halts this process.
- Embracing imperfection as a path to continued growth, creativity, and deeper self-acceptance.
Resources & References Mentioned:
- Self-Worth Reflection Worksheet: A tool to help you identify perfectionistic thoughts and replace them with affirmations of inherent worth.
- Daily Thought Practice Journal: Prompts to support questioning self-critical thoughts and building a mindset rooted in self-acceptance.
Kara’s insights remind us that perfection is an illusion and that worth is inherent in all of us. By releasing perfectionism, questioning limiting beliefs, and focusing on growth, you can build a life of self-acceptance, confidence, and genuine joy. For more tools to help overcome perfectionism and cultivate self-worth, visit Kara’s website and join a supportive community that values growth over perfection.
Connect with Kara:
Ready to release perfectionism and embrace your true worth? Join Kara’s coaching program for personalized support, and follow her on social media for daily tips on self-acceptance, confidence, and sustainable growth.
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